I really do think we need to go here because ignoring this misconception is depriving a great number of us              in a life threatening way. Just know that I’m going to tread carefully here because                                […]

According to a professional counselor Jim and I once talked to, (and we believe him because he is a “professional”) married couples spend an average of 27 seconds per day in meaningful conversation. That’s not a typo. Seconds! That is pretty scary, isn’t it? No wonder most of us hit rough patches when our companionship […]

Today I am speaking at a Pamper Yourself Ladies’ Day so I thought I’d share that presentation with you here. Make My Day: Pamper Your Soul “Make my day!” When Clint Eastwood delivered that famous line as Sudden Impact, he was saying that doing away with a really bad guy would be the crowning glory […]

I woke up thinking about Her. I would really rather NOT think about Her because there is not a lot of pleasure associated with thinking about Her. There is a lot of pain and multiple problems and maybe even a little bit of panic. But pleasure? Not so much.     I’m not sure why after […]